36. टूट रहा था दिल में कुछ।💔

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मालूम था नहीं आओगे ,
फिर भी ना जाने क्यों?
बार बार दहलीज पर,
निहारती रही नजर।


कुछ पल की ही तो दूरी थी,
फिर भी ना रह पाए हम।
इश्क़ में जुदाई का,
कुछ ऐसा हुआ असर।


टूट रहा था दिल ही दिल में,
कुछ तो कहीं चुपके से,
चेहरा छुपाए डरते रहे।
हो ना जाए किसी को खबर।

राह तेरी तकते तकते,
आंखें खामोश ना हो जाए।
सांसें तो होंगी मगर।
हम  ना होंगे,तुम ना आए अगर,
हम कहीं ना होंगे तुम ना आए।





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35. How to be A good mother...🌺

                           Today we shall discuss..... about Qualities of a mother...👇👇👇👇👇


1--- Be a good Role model......💫🌺🌼
   A mother is the first person,her child ever know. They have been with their mother right from when their little life was created. Kids copy and learn everything from her mother as they are growing up.




2--- Set Boundaries. And. Rules.....💫🌼🌺
   Children need boundaries to thrive.they need to know what they can and can't do and when.
A mother should always be consistent with these rules.Its no good changing them all the time,your child will become confused as to what is expected of them.



3--- Be Respectful...💫🌺🌼
   Respect should be two sided.
If you want your child to show you Respect,you also need to show and give them Respect in return. It doesn't matter that they are much younger than you. Because your child will follow you not your instructions and advise.





4---Be Supportive and loving..🌺💫🌼
    Whatever the circumstances they need you even if they don't know it.It is needed to support them time to time as a mother you have to guide them through out their lives.





5--- Be patient..🌺🌼💫
    A mother should have patience while dealing with your child. Frequently getting angry with them is not going to help their self confidence.It is harder than other qualities may be a lost art but needed most in developing childhood.


6--- Forgiveness..💫🌺🌼
  Your children will make mistakes,you need to forgive them when they do go wrong,they are still learning ,after they have been disciplined forgiveness should be offered with a few hugs and kisses for little ones.
Don't be afraid to ask for your child's forgiveness if you are the one in the wrong Way. This teaches them a valuable life lesson that No one is perfect,Its okay to make mistakes.





7---. BE A FRIEND..💫🌼🌺
       Be a friend of your child.It is the primary need in all round development of your children so that they can share their thoughts to u, whatever is going on in their mind whether positive or negative.




8-- Be a Motivator.
MOTHER IS SELFLESS MOTIVATOR...
Motivate your child by praising them time to time by words and instructions. Reward  should be offered them if they do something good..and also punishment should be given sometimes to show your upsets in a positive way.Always praise them if they achieve anything good in school academic activities.






9--- Counsellor and Guide..
        Counseling is an important role in the development of your child . Talk them time to time about their problems related with age behaviour and mood fluctuations specially in Adolescents.





10--- Faithfulness..
A mother should have faith with their ideas and thoughts..so that a child can share everything to her. Without any hesitation.A mother should be loyal regarding their discussion,not to share them with anyone.....It will build a firm bridge between the two.....

                                                   THANKS.......

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34. आजमा लो हमें 🌹🙏



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अपने जैसा बना दो हमें,
गमों में जीना सिखा दो हमें।
कैसे हमारे बिना रहते हो,
बस ये राज़ बता दो हमें।।

धीरे धीरे दबे क़दमों से,
बढ़े हैं हम तुम्हारी तरफ।
संभल सकें हम तुमको पाकर,
थोड़ा तो हौसला दो हमें।

गर है मोहब्बत तो क़ुबूल कर लो,
वर्ना बेरुखी जता दो हमें।
हमें देखना गवारा न हो गर,
तो पलकों से हटा दो हमें।

जितना चाहो हमें आज़मा लो,
करो थोड़े और सितम,
थोड़ी और सज़ा दो हमें।
किसी सितम पे उफ़ ना करेंगे,
हमारी खता बस बता दो हमें।

जो कहना चाहो , कि बिन मेरे जीलो,
तो क्यूं ना ज़हर पिला दो हमें।
तेरे बिन हम कहां ज़िंदा हैं,
मिट्टी में मिला दो हमें।।



 
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